I reported my abuser and now I don't know what to do (m)

2021.12.04 13:11 Quieticedragon I reported my abuser and now I don't know what to do (m)

When I was a lot younger I was abused and by a man I was supposed to be able to trust, a man who my mother trusted.
When I was younger I opened up to a family and was supported there for a long time.
I suffer FROM BPD, Depression, Anxiety and ADD which has all been very rough on me, I've self harmed for a long time on and off, and was recently hospitalized due to a suicide attempt.
Well about 2 years after years of suppressing said abuse, I opened up to some friends after having a breakdown and it felt good, it felt really good. So this year when I started a new group of friends most of whom were already friends, I opened up to these friends who were so supportive. This year I made the choice with the help of my girlfriend to report it.
I went to the police and went through all the procedures, recently the police got in touch again and basically told me that without any further evidence they couldn't do much.
They said that they thought my mom would be a good person to talk to. But unfortunately for me my mom is a person who hates police and is in a really poor mental state and has been since her parents, her sister and step mother died. She also doesn't know about the abuse.
I now don't know what to do, the police want to investigate further and get him charged but they need my mom's statement to do it.
I'm worried that this will tip my mom over the edge since she's very mentally ill and we have a strained relationship as it is.
I want to tell her to try and be open with her and get him charged but also I don't know if me or mom are stron enough to deal with all of this
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2021.12.04 13:11 rkalla [Chia] "Duplicate partial, ensure that only ONE farmer instance is running with these plots"

I'm coming up on about 1PiB plotted and I notice more and more if I scroll back through the console logs of flexfarmer, I'll come across batches of 3-8 plots that it will complain about with the above error.
I'm guessing this means I should erase/re-plot these to be on the safe side, but I wanted to try and understand the implication here a bit better first.
Setup Details: I'm using bladebit/k-32 plots for everything (if that's any help) and the native FlexPool client (the one written in Go)

  1. In about 950 TiB plotted, I've recorded about 50 plots that the FlexPool client shows this error for.
  2. Given how infinitely small the chances are that 2 K-32 plots get generated and are identical, should I assume this is a bug in FlexFarmer client OR is it a sign that the K-32 address space is getting tapped out?
  3. Is erasing/replotting the right approach here or is this a spurious error I should just ignore?
Thank you!
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2021.12.04 13:11 Representative_Yam_2 Please check out my youtube video, Its for my coursework.

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Thank you.
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2021.12.04 13:11 droctagonapus Does anyone else feel this way?

Yes the game is wonderful amazing cures cancer and is the best thing I've ever played in my entire life, but [Insert 20 paragraphs of seething about a relatively tiny topic that has 100000 similar posts on the front page that says how the game is broken and horrible and stupid and ugly and fat and has ruined their life and makes 343 out to be literally hitler].
Edit: Thanks for the 20 thousand updoots and hundreds of awards!
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2021.12.04 13:11 FarceMultiplier Reflections just pushed me over 1.45B. Thanks, paper-handed whale!

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2021.12.04 13:11 Exquisitejerry 343 needs to implement better systems to deter hacking ASAP

The hacking scene is continuing to grow and grow right now. I can’t believe they didn’t revamp the reporting system after making this free to play. Also, not allowing us to turn off crossplay? Really? Yes pc players always say cheats are on Xbox as well but it’s way more expensive to bring a major thing like aimbot to a closed space like a console. Usually we only have to deal with the occasional modded controller or something. Truth be told, the last hacker I ran into on console was on black ops 2 a year ago, which is an unsupported game at this point.
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2021.12.04 13:11 XD0ntscam What do you think about Far cry 3 blood dragon?

Thinking about getting it next steam sale and was wondering what you people think about it. (and how replayable it is, since from howlongtobeat it seems pretty short.) Thanks in advance!
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2021.12.04 13:11 DagudosV New Hero Rant

I hate to make a rant on a hero who hasn't been released yet. But I think Ubisoft has completely thrown the viking faction under the bus because the new hero clearly looks Wu Lin. As someone who only plays with the viking heroes it's really depressing that the Wu Lin got a hero more recently then the vikings and are getting a new one before them too. :(
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2021.12.04 13:11 svzuu ANL Shopping Mall Tutorial???

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2021.12.04 13:11 amg7355 Kirklees, UK child sexual exploitation: 42 charged by police

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2021.12.04 13:11 lIIIIlIIIIIIIIl [Satire] KU to the SEC

The Big 12 is already sending their worst teams from the states of Oklahoma and Texas, so figure they might as well go for the hat trick with Kansas.
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2021.12.04 13:11 buzzer94 Questions about wallets hot cold transfer crypto back and fourth between wallets

Hey im a newbie , im going to buy btc and eth a big amount Im looking into wallets found out you need wallets and you can have hot or cold etc Anyways my question is can i keep transferring my crypto to wallet after wallet if i choose too ?
For example i start off with a hot wallet for convenience sake and because im waiting on a nice crash to chuck 70k in and obviously im not going to wait on a cold wallet to arrive before i buy if the market is down lol. So ill buy and transfer to a hot wallet THEN ill order a cold wallet once that comes i transfer the crypto to my cold wallet. Then lets say j lose that cold wallet instead of waiting a few days for a new cold wallet and risking some hacker to find my cold wallet and possibly hacking it ( unlikely i know) anyways instead of that happening i transfer the crypto back to my old hot wallet or make a new one entirely while i wait for my new cold wallet to arrive and once it does i transfer my crypto to my new cold wallet Anyways so can i do all that basically?
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2021.12.04 13:11 Satanfan Daisy just being a dick today. Balls too.

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2021.12.04 13:11 Captain_Pumpkin37 ARAM Changes Patch 2.6 - Wild Rift

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2021.12.04 13:11 repdaking16 Where to sell Matebook X pro?

Hey everybody. Does anyone know where I can see a 2018 matebook x pro? No issues, I love tech and got another laptop now and this one is just sitting there with no use. I just don't want to get scammed or lowballed. Thanks.
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2021.12.04 13:11 jookco Death - Dead - Obituary - Accident : Police Search for Missing 1-Year-Old After Mother Found Dead in Wheeling Apartment ... Click link to read full story.

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2021.12.04 13:11 Deewom .....HolUp

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2021.12.04 13:11 Masakatra Register to buy Bronx terminals

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2021.12.04 13:11 Smart_Mark_722 Went to buy a tree at a farm.. ended up only being able to buy one about $150-$200. Kinda pisses me off- but don’t get me wrong, it was worth it.

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2021.12.04 13:11 Curioustoby85 I awoke to the sound of my baby screaming, but when I reached her room she was fast asleep.

From somewhere close behind me, the screaming began again.
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